The bisexual threat: Smashing the patriarchy.

Of course, every single orientation, especially in the LGBT+ scene, must struggle with prejudice and stereotypes. Of course, the degree of discrimination is particularly high here, because the mere designation as "scene" suggests its deviation from the norm. Since in this case I would like to speak from my own experience, I only refer to the "phenomenon" of bisexuality.

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Co-depressive: Shared suffering is still suffering. 

At that time it was not possible for me to carry everything and finally I found myself in a whirlpool of endless darkness, which would accompany me for months to come. Even after the separation, the intense moments and helplessness I suffered did not let me sleep. At night the thoughts "What could I have done better? Why didn't I see that coming? Why wasn't it possible for me to put a stop to this?" The lack of helpfulness of different institutions in my eyes at that time also contributed to the fact that I could not process what I had experienced so easily and put it aside.

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Spread Love: No less than freedom.

Love. Love offers so much potential for tragedies, dramas, but also inspiring and wonderful moments that can go beyond human imagination. But why does it scare us first and foremost? Why are there more and more people who describe themselves as relationally disturbed and see this quality as a shield for themselves in the daily struggle within interpersonal relationships?

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Dating Life of a bisexual.

Of course, the role models learned are transferred to one's own later romantic relationships and love life. Even though I often felt like I wanted more and simply to say that, in the end I often paused and waited. Meanwhile it is not like that anymore. Not for a few years. At some point I was tired of it. In a small town it’s not so easy. After all, you still have to pay extra attention to what your neighbours think about you and, above all, what they expect from you

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Jealousy: Growing together instead of merging. 

Of course! Jealousy also exists in polyamorous unions and open relationships. So the question should be how to deal with it. In alternative relationship concepts, the discussion does not focus on the "what", but on the "how". It's not about having slept with someone else/being intimate with them, but about how it all happened. How did I communicate the whole thing? How did I protect my partner from unpleasant feelings and take away fears (of loss)? 

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Naturalness: What kind of world do we live in?

In a world where children are presented at the supermarket checkout with images of disfigured lungs, smoking legs and dead people, while nudity is considered horrifying. In the news, there is no shortage of lurid headlines and pictures of accident victims on public display in tabloids. That, too, is fine as long as no naked breast or abdomen can be seen

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Druggies with future.

Statistics prove that especially in higher levels of education and society there is a more liberal attitude towards currently illegal substances. One is finally able to inform oneself and to question the almost antique drug paragraphs. After all, almost every young adult in his or her life has dragged on a joint and did not wake up homeless on the street with a needle in his or her arm.

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